What You Can Learn From the Estate Planning Mistakes of Others

There is much to be learned from the mistakes of others and the celebrity world abounds with cautionary tales when it comes to estate planning.  Even with all the financial resources available to them, celebrities can neglect the basics when it comes to protecting assets.

We come across sad tales all the time of “regular” people failing to take the proper steps to create an estate plan that assures their assets pass properly and that their heirs are spared from having to untangle costly legal messes.

Here are five important lessons you can learn from the mistakes of others:

  1. Don’t die without a will. Celebrities are the same as most people when it comes to thinking they will live forever – but they differ greatly in that they usually have a lot more money to leave behind.  Actor Heath Ledger died without updating his will to include his daughter; all his assets went to his parents and siblings.
  2. Equal isn’t always the same. Thinking she was treating her two children equally in her bequest, one woman left her home to her son and her investment portfolio to her daughter.  Unfortunately, when she died, there was a sizeable tax liability on the home, and the only assets available were from the portfolio, leaving the daughter shortchanged.
  3. Name the right executor. Naming a friend as executor is fine, but not always the best option.  One woman named her best friend as her executor, but they happened to be the same age.  When the woman died at age 86, her friend followed a few weeks later and no one was left to serve as executor since she hadn’t named a backup.
  4. Provide for your children from a prior marriage. A man with children from a first marriage left all his assets to his second wife; when she died, all of those assets went to her children, leaving nothing for his children.  Instead, he should have provided for them directly or placed his assets in a trust so they could pass to his children after her death.
  5. Promises don’t count. Before he died, Marlon Brando allegedly promised his house to his caregiver but did not record that promise in his will.  She did not get the house.  If you want to leave something to someone, you need to put it in writing in your will or a trust.

As a Personal Family Lawyer®, I can further advise you on all your options and make things as easy as possible for your family during a Family Wealth Planning Session.  If you would like to have a talk about estate planning for your family, call our office today to schedule a time for us to sit down and talk.

To your family’s health, wealth and happiness!

David Feakes

P.S.  Want to get started on the most important planning you’ll ever do for your family?  Give our office a call at (978) 263-6900 to get started.  You’ll be so glad you did.

David Feakes is the owner of The Parents Estate Planning Law Firm, PC – a law firm for families in the Acton, Massachusetts area.  David helps parents protect the people they love the most.  If you would like to receive David’s exclusive, free report, “Six Major Mistakes To Avoid When Choosing An Estate Planning Attorney,”  you can get it right here.

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